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Home My WebLink AboutConsent top of mind as Canadian sex-education curriculum evolves - Globe & Mail - 01/23/2018 - Globe & Mail - 01/23/20181/24/2018 Consent top of mind as Canadian sex -education curriculum evolves - The Globe and Mail mat Consent top of mind as Canadian sex -education curriculum evolves S,alleema Noon is a Vancouver based sexual health educator who frequaentlly wrarl<s in SC1100115'in 1:31'iifth C011Umbi,a DARRY1.. DYCK/111 E: GLOBE: AIVD IA AII.. DAVE MCGINN 3, PU131..ISH1:.D JANUARY 23, 20:18 URI:>ATI: J) :1.3 HOURS AGO Teaching Canadian children about consent has gone well beyond simply "no means no," but there is still much more work to be done in what and how we teach young people about their sexuality if we want to prevent sexual assaults, experts say. While an earlier generation of Canadians grew up in the era of "no means no," today sexual health educators teach affirmative consent, says Saleema Noon, a Vancouver -based sexual health educator who frequently works in schools in British Columbia. "What we're teaching them is that it needs to bean ongoing conversation," says Noon. "It doesn't have to be, 'Okay, well, stop what we're doing here. Let's get the forms out.' It doesn't have to be like that. It could just be a series, as they go along, of simple questions like, 'Do you feel comfortable? What are you into? Are you cool with this?"' S FOIRY CON FINUI:::!S I::II:::.I...CJvv Al:avl:::!R��rISI:::.MI:::.IV��r Read more: The next frontier in consent: Better sex https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/parenting/consent-top-of-mind-as-canadian-sex-education-curriculum-evolves/article37707402/ 1/4 1/24/2018 Consent top of mind as Canadian sex -education curriculum evolves - The Globe and Mail "Absolutely, non-verbal cues and things like voice tone are part of that picture," she says. Unfortunately, she says, the sex -education curriculum in British Columbia has not caught up with the times and the need to inform young people about the issue of consent. "In the curriculum for Grade 7 there is nothing about teaching consent," she says. "In Grade 8 and 9 it could fall under the heading of'health sexual decision-making."' But, she says, there is no explicit requirement to address the topic. Similarly, Alberta's curriculum includes no explicit mention of consent either, says Pam Krause, president and chief executive officer of the Calgary Sexual Health Centre, an organization that provides sexual and reproductive -health programs and services. "The provincial curriculum in Alberta — all it says is, there is a ministerial directive that says you must teach sexual health education. It doesn't say who teaches it, how many hours of instruction [it must include]," Krause says. S FO R Y C O N F I PJ l..1 E: S I3liii: L.. OW A D V I:::! R FIS E: N/1I:::: N F Ontario's new health and physical education curriculum, introduced in 2015, weaves in the concept of consent from Grade 1 onward, says Tammy Shubat, director of programs at Ophea, a not-for-proft group that advised the province on the curriculum. In Grade 1, that could mean learning when it is okay to touch other students, Shubat says. From Grade 6 onward, the curriculum explicitly addresses consent, with students learning that consent must be affirmative and continuous, as well as how to understand non-verbal signs. "There's body language, there's understanding context," Shubat says. "Paying attention to facial expressions, body language. Those are all things that kids are talking about." While it is certainly good that young people are being taught affirmative consent, sex education should have a much broader scope, says Jen Gilbert, an associate professor of education at York University in Toronto. "Consent isn't a magic bullet. It's not that if we just talk about consent then we'll somehow prepare young people to avoid sexual assaults. It's one piece of a larger educational effort," she says. "Really, education should be about everything that happens before consent is given or received — that we help young people really think about and take risks with their sexuality so that they feel comfortable advocating for themselves but also knowing what they want and don't want." S FORY CON rINUI::::`> BEI OW ADVE::R FISE:::IVIE:::N r That need not only be about sex, but doing more to empower young people in general, Gilbert says. "The idea that young people would talk about what they want and don't want isn't only about what they want and don't want in sex. We think sex is like this separate realm of experience when really it's part of our whole lives," she says. Krause says she would like to see schools devoting more time in sex -education classes to "building and sustaining healthy relationships." But the fundamentals of affirmative consent — that it is an ongoing dialogue based on mutual respect, that it must be voluntary, that people must learn to read not just words but actions and context — cannot be overstated, she says. https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/parenting/consent-top-of-mind-as-canadian-sex-education-curriculum-evolves/article37707402/ 2/4 1/24/2018 Consent top of mind as Canadian sex -education curriculum evolves - The Globe and Mail education most Canadians have received." @ 11)"IE:IM CG II N N dEIL ORI AN E:RR0IY EA)HC)I IAL CODE: OF: CC)IVDUC1 ' I,ICIi:NSING CIP�110IV5 As of December 20, 2017, we have temporarily removed commenting from our articles as we switch to a new provider. We are behind schedule, but we are still working hard to bring you a new commenting system as soon as possible. If you are looking to give feedback on our new site, please send it along to feedbacl<@globeandmaii.com. 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